Hi, I’m Ashley (she/her).
I’m a licensed psychotherapist practicing online therapy in Massachusetts, Virginia and Florida. I’ve worked in sexual and reproductive health for 15 years, and I believe that pleasure goes beyond feeling good during sex.
Pleasure is a way of reconnecting deeply with yourself and others, and has the power to heal.
I’m a clinical sexologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, clinical hypnotherapist, and feminist activist. I’m pro-choice, and passionate about empathy and connection.
I’m also the founder and CEO of Pro-Choice Therapists, the first national directory and membership organization of pro-choice mental health providers.
Let me help you get unstuck.
Therapeutic Expertise
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Difficulty with Desire
Many people who I work with struggle to find their sexual desire. Let me help you connect with your body and tap into your unique erotic self.
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Problems with Communication
Most of us learn communication from our families of origin. These don’t always work with others as we grow up in relationships. Let’s work together to find a communication style that works best for you and your relationship(s).
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When Sex Doesn't Feel Good
Most folks learn about sex from the media and porn. Neither shows what real sex looks like. Through education, empowerment, and self-discovery, you can uncover the sex you’ve always wanted.
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Trauma & Shame
Whether your trauma was recent, or decades ago, your body remembers. Through mindfulness, body awareness, and re-telling of the story, we can work to unlock your trauma and shame. Let’s uncover your pain and set it free.
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Anxiety & Self-Esteem
It can be hard to feel grounded and calm in a never-ending sea of life’s expectations. Let’s work to untangle your anxiety, improve your self-esteem, and help you find your power.
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Abortion & Pregnancy Loss
About half of all pregnancies end through miscarriage or abortion. It can be hard to find a safe space to grieve pregnancy loss, or work through the stigma of abortion. Let’s process your feelings in a safe and affirming space.
Client Testimonials
“I started working with Ashley at a very vulnerable time in my life. She became my rock! She stood up for me when I didn’t know how to. She helped me work though past traumas, helped me learn boundaries, taught me how to better communicate with my partner and so much more. She is a great listener and provides great advice and perspective. I highly recommend working with her if you need to learn how to be a better champion for yourself or if you just need a great listener in your corner... Ashley helped me to become a better person and partner and for that I am forever grateful.”
“Ashley was the first person that I ever told about my abortion. I never regretted it, but it still hurt that I had to keep it a secret. She helped me to see that abortion is normal and I don’t need to be ashamed. ”
“You [Ashley] helped me and my husband fix our problems in the bedroom. I had no idea what sex therapy would be like but it was actually fun and I learned so much. Thank you!”
